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Imagine a Leadership that Solves Our Problems

 

I truly believe that we Americans have the best political system in the world.  The way in which it was created, appears to have been divinely inspired.  American democracy was a momentous leap in the history of humanity as it brought about a government “of the people, by the people, and for the people.”  It gave a say in the running of the government to all of us; it allowed for freedom of thought, speech and religion; and, it was open to “organically grow at the edge” as time and necessity required. 

I hear a lot of people concerned about the country these days.  As I’ve written here before, I have my own concerns.  What bothers me the most is not necessarily the issues within the government (which do bother me) but rather the sense of resignation that I hear from many Americans who feel they have no say in their government.  I hear a lot of whining don’t see any action.  People say, “who am I to get my voice heard when there are so many lobbyist and it appears that our representatives are owned by corporations?” 

As a recent article in the Christian Science Monitor reports, an unusually high number of elected officials in Congress are leaving at the end of this term.  Of the ones leaving, many expressed concern over the extremely high partisan nature in which business is currently being done. 

The article says.  “Senators perceived by outside groups to be working across party lines face reprisals in the polls.  Sen. Robert Bennett of Utah, and John McCain of Arizona faced strong opposition in the Republican primaries from conservatives, who challenge their bipartisan work.”  The article goes on to quote Norman Ornstein of the American Enterprise Institute, who says “the ability to work across party lines has really taken a serious hit in the Senate — more than I’ve ever seen it before.  What that tells you is that any [Republican] that even ventures the idea of working with the other side, no matter how conservative they are, end up in real trouble.” 

Sen. Evan Bayh, points out that politics has always been “a bare-knuckled sport.”  But he adds, “the extremes in both parties are the most dynamic elements, and they tend to hold members to rigid litmus test, and any deviation is punished…at the end of the day, people expect us to get things done.  This constant all or nothing situation constantly leads to nothing.” 

I agree it sounds discouraging.  I too share concerns about the amount of corporate influence over Congress.  I too am concerned that the extremes in both parties seem to be the tail wagging the dog.   But I disagree that we have no power.  We can let our elected officials know what is important to us.  You can write them, you can do it right now.  I’ll make it easy for you. 

Here’s some sample text, which you can copy and modify: 

I am writing you to express my concern over the highly partisan manner in which our Congress appears to be acting.  The issues facing our country such as our economy, healthcare, the continued deployment of our troops on foreign soil, climate change and other numerous issues are so important to our future, that there is no time for our political parties to continue along the path of a win lose mentality.  This is the time to put down our partisan differences and focus on the highest needs of the American people.  Too many Americans believe they no longer have a say in how their government is run.  I disagree, and I know you do too.  You, as my elected representative, are my voice in the government.  The power you hold is instilled in you, by both our Constitution and the people you represent.  Your role and charge is not to any political party, nor to any campaign donors or lobbyist.  Your charge is much higher than that.  I ask you to do everything in your power to hold to the highest vision for our country and to work to end the partisan stalemate that prevents our country from solving these momentous problems.  Americans have a history of coming together.  Now is the time, and you hold the key.  Can you hold back the partisan pressures which face you can turn your focus towards what our country can be?  Thank you for listening and good luck. 

Here’s a website where you can go and send your note to your congressman:  Write Your Congressman

Here’s where you can write your senator (you will have to send 2 notes):  Write Your Senators

You will have to fill in a small bit of personal info, but it won’t take long.  You do have a voice and a say in your government, claim it.  Ask them to turn from where we are and towards our highest possible future for our country. 

There was another time our country was divided much more than it is now….in fact we were warring with ourselves and President Lincoln offered this hope and guidance to us:  “We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory, stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave, to every living heart and hearth-stone, all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the Union when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature.” 

I know that the better angels or our nature will be touched by the needs of the present to help bridge us to that future that calls us. 

Blessings. 

Mark

Bring Love Everywhere You Go!

Here are seven simple ways you can be the change you want to see in the world.  Seek to practice as many of these as you can each day.  You will be making a difference in your life and the planet.

1   Make Eye Contact

It’s so easy to get locked in our own internal world that we forget that we are walking among fellow spiritual beings.  Look up.  See the other person.  Look in their eyes.  Don’t get discouraged if they look away.  Keep looking, you will connect with many beautiful souls.  Affirm: today I look in the eyes of everyone I see.

2   Smile

Now that you’re looking at people, smile.  Think of all the expressions you’ve ever seen in other people’s faces.  What would you rather see?  Give the smile you want to receive.  Affirm: today, I smile at everyone.

3  Be Consciously Polite

Look for ways to display good manners.  Say please and thank you.  Hold doors.  Let people in to your lane on the highway.  Affirm: today, I am consciously polite in every possible situation.

4  Listen

There is no greater gift we can give to a person than to listen when they are speaking. When someone speaks to you, give them your undivided attention.  If you were doing something else, let go of it for a moment.  Focus on what they’re saying, not on what you were doing previously or what you’re going to say in response. Affirm: today, I listen deeply to every person who speaks to me.

5  Give Your Energy to Goodness

Recognize that whatever you give your attention and focus to grows in your life.  When those around you are being negative, be polite, but don’t buy in to their negativity.  Avoid rumors, talking about others negatively behind their back, and the like.  Turn off negative media.  On the other hand, consciously look for positive actions and positive statements out in the world and reinforce it.  When someone exhibits kindness or makes a positive comment, acknowledge it.  Seek out affirmative media.  Affirm: today, I see and give my energy to goodness in the world.

6  Take the Other’s Perspective

Let go of the need to be right and to change other people’s minds.  Hold healthy boundaries for yourself and your beliefs, but look for ways to understand how others think and why they think that way.  When someone states an opinion or exhibits a behavior with which you disagree, try to imagine how and why that could be their choice in that moment.  Briefly visualize how their life might have led them to having that worldview or opinion.  With that in mind, hold compassion for them.  You don’t have to agree with them, condone their behavior, or change their mind.  Affirm: today, I seek to understand those who believe differently.

7  Bring Acts of Love, and Kindness into the World

Consciously and deliberately look for ways to instigate loving mischief all around you.  Freely give compliments.  Pay for other people’s meals.  Notice ways others are being kind in the world and copy it.  Be the love you want to see in the world.  Set an intention every day to perform a certain number of kind acts each day and then keep increasing it.  Pass along positive e-mails such as this one.  Affirm: today, I bring acts of love and kindness everywhere I go.

What additional ways can you think of to bring love and kindness into the world?  Add your thoughts to this note and pass it on to your friends now.  Feel free to give me your ideas as well.

Namaste.

Mark

We can bridge our divide

My sincere wish for today’s blog is that you read it, that somehow it touches you, and that you pass it on to others.  Your actions make a difference.

Our beautiful country and our glorious planet are facing tremendous challenges.  Every day our news is filled with reports about the struggling economy, wars, natural disasters (such as the recent events in Haiti), climate change, population growth, dwindling access to fresh water, people with lack of access to affordable healthcare, and on and on.  Some days it seems that these issues are overwhelming and that time is running out on humanity to solve them.

Yet, I am an optimist.  I know that collectively we have the strength, intelligence and wisdom to solve whatever barriers we face.  But the key is we must face them together.  As Benjamin Franklin said, “we must all hang together, or assuredly we will all hang separately.”  Somewhere within each of us, we truly realize that people are better at solving common problems when they work together.

However, as we look out on the landscape of American politics it appears that many politicians and much of our media fans the flames of our differences which only serves to keep us divided.  Whether intentional or not, their left-right win-lose approach to solving our problems only pushes us further away from any real resolution.  We must move to focusing on our commonality and seeking win-win solutions that unite us as a people.

There is a lot of talk in Washington, DC these days about seeking bipartisan solutions.  Even last week, President Obama met with Republican congressional leaders during their retreat in an attempt to foster a bipartisan dialogue.  Although I was encouraged by this event, the news coverage and discussion by political pundits still tended to focus upon who won and who lost in their discussion, casting a cynical eye on whether we can truly move into bipartisan politics.

I say it’s time to move beyond bipartisan and into a new era of transpartisan politics.  What does transpartisan mean?  According to Wikipedia, this is an emerging field of political thought, which aims to negotiate between right and left towards a dualistic solution or perspective, one which tends to avoid political affiliation altogether.  This concept has been around for many years.

Now I know as you read this that there is a part of you that doesn’t want to let go of your personal political labels.  That’s fine.  Seeking to promote a transpartisan approach to the challenges facing our country and our world, doesn’t mean letting go of any of your personal political beliefs.  You can be on the right, you can be on the left, you can be in the middle.  You can be a Democrat, you can be a Republican, you can be an independent.  You can be a member of the Green Party or be a Libertarian.  You can be a Tea Party member or belong to MoveOn.org.  In fact, the vast diversity of political opinions is a good thing, as it offers a wide variety of perspectives as we approach solutions to our issues.  The more ideas we bring to the table, the better ideas we have.  It’s not about winning or losing, it’s about solving our collective problems.

So I am asking you today to join in the promotion of a new transpartisan era in American politics forged in the glorious history of our diversity of political opinions, but anchored in the awareness of our common humanity.  As our constitution reminds us in its very first words, “We the people, in order to form a more perfect union…”  Let’s all of us keep our focus on attention on living from a state of that “perfect union”.

You have the power to make a difference and to heal our political divide.  What can you do?  Here are some actions for your consideration:

  • Stop right now and Google the word “transpartisan”.  Read about the groups and organizations that are promoting this new vision of American politics.  Get ideas about how you can bring this concept into your daily actions.
  • Begin noticing when politicians or the media are promoting conflict and win-lose political options.  Let them know that you do not appreciate how they continue to foster division.  Turn away from media that contributes to dividing us as a people.
  • Support political leaders who promote transpartisan solutions.  Let them know you appreciate their seeking win-win alternatives.
  • Look for opportunities to insert transpartisan solutions into political dialogue.  Talk with others.  Write letters to the editor.
  • Seek a diversity of opinions and value all of them.  Surrounding yourself with viewpoints that only agree with the opinion you already hold limits your ability to find the best option.
  • Join and support groups are seeking transpartisan political solutions.  Friend them and support them on social marketing sites such as Facebook.
  • Be firm in your political beliefs but honor other people’s beliefs.  Seek solutions that unites us rather than divides us.

You can probably come up with your own ways and add to this list.

Finally, I hope that you agree with me that it’s time for us to move beyond politics as usual.  It’s time to move beyond putting our differences before commonalities.  It’s time to work together to tap the power of synergy to solve the challenges we face.

If you agree, please forward this note on to your friends and family and add your own comments in support of working in unity.

Mark Gilbert

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As I stated previously, the purpose of this website is to share information and foster dialogue on how we can use the power of our thoughts to create the highest possible future for humanity. That’s a lofty goal, I know. But like any large goal, it’s only attainable by breaking it down into smaller goals that are more manageable. So then that lofty goal, really can be attained by each of us making choices in our daily lives that are in the direction of the highest possible future.

But that raises the big question… given any situation in my life, how can I always know which choice is for my highest good and the highest good of the planet? In other words, given a situation large or small, how can I know which choice is “right”?

I’ve always found great wisdom in these words from the mystic Ernest Holmes, “The criterion for any man as to what is right or wrong for him is not to be found in some other man’s judgment. The criterion is: Does the thing I wish to do express more life, more happiness, more peace for myself, and at the same time harm no one? If it does, it is right. It is not selfish. But if it is done at the expense of anyone, then in such degree we are making a wrong use of the Law.”

I usually boil that down to asking myself if what I’m about to do ” expresses more life and harms no one?”

Of course the devil’s in the details, meaning reasonable people sometimes disagree on when something is expressing more life or when something might be harming someone. For example, a few days ago I stopped into a local Starbucks. Sitting at one of the tables was a scruffy gentleman nursing a cup of coffee and working to create small items of jewelry out of beads and strings he had laid out on the table. I immediately sensed some of the other patrons were bothered by the presence of this man. I stopped and asked him what he was making and he proudly presented me his artistic creations and insisted I take a gift of a key chain after complimenting his work.

So was this gentleman expressing more life and harming no one? In my opinion, he was certainly expressing life through his call to create his jewelry. And, I felt he was really harming no one by creating key chains at a table at Starbucks although some of the other patrons might have disagreed.

I’m sure you can think of plenty of situations in your life, where people disagree on whether something is right or wrong even if using the criteria I offer here. So how do we get to the truth in such situations? There’s two ways.

The first, which most of us use, is to go to our minds and try to logically argue which way is right or which way is wrong. We weigh pros and cons. We often take into account the opinions of experts or which answer the majority agrees with. There’s nothing wrong with using the mind in this approach.

However, there is a second way that we can get at truth when trying to determine if something is right or wrong–trying to decide if something expresses more life and harms no one. That way is to take it into the silence within us… to go within… to ask our higher selves… to listen to our intuition… to seek the wisdom of Spirit or Infinite Intelligence. There, in the silence, we will usually get an inner sense of what truly is best for ourselves and everyone.

Therefore, my suggestion for you today is when faced with a situation when you’re not sure which way to act, do this: ask yourself, which choice expresses more life and harms no one? If the answer is not immediately clear, then certainly use your mind to logically weigh the choices, but also take it in your heart and listen….and then trust your intuition.

Blessings and enjoy life.

Mark

Haiti Opened Our Hearts

This is in followup to my message from earlier this week….If you are looking for a way to make a contribution to the relief efforts in Haiti, the United Centers for Spiritual Living, the international organization of which I am a part, has established a link on their home page for contributions. 

You may reach that page here:

www.unitedcentersforspiritualliving.org

And, as requested previously, let us all keep the people of Haiti and the relief workers in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark


 

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